Tips to attract women – Peacocking & Signals
Here are two good tips to attract women. Both are really powerful tools in your arsenal.
First off, peacocking. If you’ve not heard of peacocking you’ve not been in the seduction community very long. Peacocking is where you dress in a way that gets you noticed. Most pick up artists will understand this in terms of what Mystery did, which is wear outrageous clothes like furry hats, goggles, paint your nails black, wear shiny jewellery etc.
Peacocking is good because it makes you stand out. It makes it easier to get laid because women are more likely to notice and be attracted to you compared to if you just blended into the background. To get laid you very often need to be different from all the other guys.
However, you don’t have to peacock like Mystery. You can draw attention to yourself if you’re just dressed well. A good suit, well-fitting jeans, the odd piece of jewellery will make you stand out without repelling the women who think that the guy wearing a furry top hat must be a weirdo.
Secondly watch for approach invitations. An approach invitations (AI) is where a girl is giving you a sign, whether consciously or subconsciously, telling you that she wants you to come over and talk to you. Lots of guys trying to attract women fear that the women will reject them, but if you know what to look for you can avoid rejection by approaching women already attracted to you.
Tips to attract women: but how do you know it’s an AI?
Women who want to be approached with create an opportunity for you to do it. If you’re in a bookstore and an HB You’re in a bookstore and an HB walks up and stands near you and at that moment starts making a fuss to dig through her huge sack called a “purse” to dig out a scarf and keeps making a lot of commotion to put the scarf on, fix her hair, whatever. That’s an AI. The beauty of an AI is that it creates your opener for you – you no longer have to
worry about WHAT to say to open with a chick. In that situation, all you’ve got to say is: “Interesting scarf” or “That’s a huge bag” or “Hi”.
You are much more likely to get a positive response from an AI situation than a cold approach using either a canned opener or coming up with something interesting while initiating conversation. It could be ANY number of things to get your attention that in most circumstances is out of the normal. She decides to tie her sneakers in front of you. She asks people around her stupid questions. She says something really dorky out loud to her friend, easily overheard by you. She seems to stall in the areas you’re standing. She starts tapping her fingers on a surface near you. She drops something near you, pretends to be interested in something near.
I had a girlfriend who used to play bambi and fall over in front of guys she liked so that they would come and talk to her. Guys thought ‘sweet, I’ve got a good reason to talk to this girl’ which was exactly what she wanted them to think.
There are other more subtle signs to look for. If a girl is on the edge of a group and is looking round then she’s bored and wants to be approached. If a girl makes eye contact, or smiles, or waves, or makes any signal directed specifically at you then she wants you to come over. Another good indicator is proximity. The girls that come and dance next to you on the dance floor are the ones that are interested. They might not even consciously register it themselves but if they are attracted they will come and dance closer.
So here I’ve given you two great tips to attract women. Firstly dress to impress and think about wearing clothes that make you stand out in a good way. Lots of guys are lazy about their fashion so if you’re not this a huge advantage. Secondly learn how to spot girls that are already into you – you don’t need to attract women if they are already attracted to you!