Articles in the Mindset Category

Conditioning 1
“Women only like jerks” “nice guys finish last” “girls only go for assholes”, this kind of thinking is bullshit.
This can be perceived by “nice guy culture” as an excuse for a poor love life and justified because they are such catchy sayings.
This is perceived only. An extension of conditioning is all it really is. Many guys who are conditioned that women don’t like sex tend to then also not be sexual in nature to appease them and ends up in a giant loop.
“Well I wasn’t pushy with her, I …

Chatting to other guys in the Pick Up Artist community you hear stories from guys about how they thought that trying to learn to attract women and get their love lives on the right lines was embarrassing for them. I really don’t think it should be and I’ll tell you why.
Let’s say you’re shy and feel awkward. You realise that you have more potential in you but you feel bad about trying to learning about human dynamics.
This is common situation. They know learning they have a lack of confidence and …

Well, the way to attract women if your life sucks is to go about not making it suck anymore – genius, right? Actually though, it is possible to change your life and make it better and more appealing to women and yourself more appealing to women. Changing your life requires serious effort and knowledge – you need to know how to change.
You might feel that the following applies to you. You might think you are at rock bottom . If so, realise that there are lots of people in this …

There are some guys that simply can’t get out of the house to go and meet women. You might live on an oilrig, at home with the parents in the deepest countryside, whatever. The question is how you can attract women without having any women to attract. The solution is to improve yourself while you’re stuck wherever you are so that you are a more attractive individual when you go out.
Here are a range of things you might like to try when you’re stuck without women.
Build your character. Read non-PUA …

Ah, this one is an oldie but a goody: how to attract a girl if you’re not rich. Lots of guys think that it’s impossible to attract women if they don’t have cash spilling out of their eyeballs.
Let’s imagine the scenario. There’s a girl you like, you’re watching her right now. She’s sitting in some rich kid’s car in the driving seat and he’s showing it off to her. She looks really impressed. You turn to look at your own car – some beat up Ford Fiesta which had seen …

Listen up, because this is important. This may be one of the most important things you read about dating and relationships.  The hopeless collective male thinks being attractive to women is about possessing a list of material characteristics – and rightfully so. Eaves drop in on a group of attractive women talking about men. You’ll hear them talking about how they want the face of Brad Pitt, the bank account of Mr. Gates, etc..
Yet many of these same women end up sleeping with and marrying guys with none of these …

What you need to do to attract a woman is to have value in her eyes. What is ‘value’? What is essentially a short-hand way of saying ‘the things that she wants’. A man has value if he has attractive qualities. Some of these things may sound obvious but it’s certainly true.
This is a partial list it. It could be much longer. Credit to Mehow for the ideas.
Here is a list of the essential attractive qualities:
You live in your own world—women find men who are doing their own thing extremely …

There are many different things you can do to attract women. One of the best ways, not just for attracting women, but for your happiness as a whole, is to build an awesome lifestyle that other people want to take part in.
So how do you do this?
1.       Go to your closet and throw away everything you don’t like. Buy a fashion magazines, or better, magazines, and see what’s on trend. Then buy that and dress like you’re going somewhere.
2.       Get a proper haircut. Go to a good hairdresser and get …