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Do Adult Dating Sites Really Work?

4 January 2013 No Comment

If you’ve ever signed up to one of these adult dating sites before, then you’ll know that most of them are full of prostitutes, crazy folk and fake accounts.

Doesn’t leave you feeling as though they could help you find a casual partner does it?

Having said that, there are some adult websites out there that are in fact legit and they do have REAL people on there looking for one off NSA sex.

From my own experience I can tell you that there are a handful of sites that monitor their day to day activity and make sure that only real men and women are using their site for what it was intended for, these are the best adult dating sites that I know of.

Today I’m going to be giving you a few tips on how to setup your account, check to see if you’re contacting real people and choosing the best type of site.

How to setup an account

Most people don’t really create very compelling profiles which is why they never get any clicks or anyone messaging them. The key to a good profile consists of 3 ingredients:

1. A great photo

The main photo on your account is the most important one, it’s the one that people see first and will drive the clicks. So it needs to be creative and compelling. I would advise that you use the “normal” approach which is to leave your clothes on and smile.

Yep you heard me, a simple upper body and head shot with you smiling naturally. The shot needs to have been taken within the last month, otherwise it shouldn’t be uploaded.

2. A bunch of photos

The more photos you can upload the better. Think of it as like an ecommerce store, Amazon have multiple shots for their products because they know that people can’t physically touch the product so the next best thing is a picture.

Take photos of you out socialising, in various places, smiling, posing… take at least 8 to 10 shots and upload them.

3. Intriguing ‘about you’ section

Whatever you do, please do not add the same old boring stuff that everyone else does. Things like “I’m a fun person… looking for a fun person to have a good time with”. It’s so lame! You need to be funny, quirky and different if you want to catch someones eye.

Say something like “Hey, I’m new to this whole online adult dating thing, so be gentle with me… save that stuff for the bedroom ;)”

Checking a fake account

Unfortunately you will at some point come across a fake account. Here’s how to tell if the account is fake:

  • Blatant advertisement – If you see a profile with “Hey, looking for fun? Call me on this number” then it’s a fake account and probably a hooker.
  • Bad photos – If the account holder has chosen to hide themselves in the pictures by taking a shot of the back of their head or just their body, then it’s more than likely going to be a fake account.

The best types of sites

There are a handful of sites online that are really good. The best way to tell the good sites from the bad are if you look out for one of two things. The first is how many people there are on the site, if there’s a couple of thousand then it won’t be any good.

You need to look for sites that have over 100,000 members. The second thing to watch out for is if it’s paid, you should always avoid the free sites as these attract the most crazy people and folks who just aren’t serious about looking for a casual hookup.

So that’s it, hope you enjoyed those tips on adult dating.

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